Is your girlfriend uninterested in you all of a sudden? She couldn’t seem to get enough at the beginning of your relationship; flirtatious texts throughout the day were frequent, pleasant weekend excursions were routine, and she was eager to make physical touch whenever possible. And now? You can’t quite put your finger on it, but it seems like there has been a subtle but significant shift.
It makes sense for the initial chemistry to fade a little with time, but these days you worry that she has completely lost interest in you. Which of these is the good news? You can take action before it’s too late if you can see the indicators that she is losing interest.
If you suspect your lover may be losing interest in you, there’s no real need to fear. Jumping to conclusions about why they aren’t as invested will not help either of you nor does it necessarily indicate they no longer love you or want to be in the relationship.
Jumping to conclusions about why they aren’t as invested will not help either of you nor does it necessarily indicate they no longer love you or want to be in the relationship. The reality of the situation is that there are several uncontrolled aspects of life, such as a global pandemic.
According to a 2021 Verywell Mind study, a staggering 40% of respondents acknowledged to being bored while sharing a home with their spouses during the epidemic, and 28% felt they were spending too much time together.
Cut yourself some mercy if your relationship hasn’t exactly been flourishing while you’ve been in quarantine amid a health emergency!
But there are other things you should look out for if you think the quarantine left your relationship unaffected.
If she is always busy that might be a red flag. She always cancels plans, never calls back, and always is too busy could mean “I don’t want to be around you”. Maybe you are always initiating plans and she never is the first to do so. Your girlfriend is uninterested out of nowhere and you are confused.
How do you solve this issue? Simply ask her! Maybe she feels the same way or maybe there is a conflict. Or simplest of all sometimes relationships don’t work and it’s as easy as asking her first to spare the huge heartbreak. Communication might save your relationship or spare wasting your time!
